Life Coaching for Docs
Why is CMDA Offering Coaching?
Today's Christian doctor faces obstacles and pressures it would have
been difficult to imagine or even foresee ten years ago. The threat of
malpractice, the maze of electronic record keeping, and the pressures of
too little time and too many responsibilities can seem overwhelming.
Balancing life in medicine with personal and family demands, and the
challenges of working with colleagues and patients can be a daunting
task! It's not uncommon for Christian doctors to use words like 'stuck,'
or 'in a rut,' or 'needing change, but not knowing how to make that
change happen' to describe where they are in their lives and practice.
CMDA recognizes these challenges, and desires to provide tools and
opportunities to encourage our members in their desire to honor Jesus
Christ in their lives, their families, and their practice of medicine or
dentistry.
Coaching represents one of the fastest growing areas of personal
development in America today. A life or personal coach serves as a
skilled consultant, but in many ways does a lot more. Because CMDA
recognizes the challenges that can be presented in life as a Christian
doctor, we are offering coaching services to our members which will
specifically focus on the concerns and goals of the doctors we
serve.
What is a life coach?
Coaches are skilled and trained to work with individuals who are
ready to grow, develop, and move into new and exciting places of living
and serving. Essentially, a coach helps people order their lives around
the things they value most.
Why is coaching a good choice for doctors?
There are several reasons that a growing number of CMDA doctors are
finding benefit in having a coach. First, coaching fits into the
lifestyle of super busy doctors. It's done by telephone. It's done
confidentially. And perhaps most importantly, the agenda for each
coaching session is set by the doctor receiving the coaching. No one
knows your life better than you. In the coaching relationship, the
expert is not the coach, but rather, the person being coached. The coach
is trained to ask insightful and creative questions, and come alongside
an individual who is in the process of developing plans, goals, dreams.
Coaching is not necessarily for those in crisis or in need of healing,
but rather, is specifically targeted toward those who are facing
particular challenges, or are desirous of a change, and wanting to move
from what may be a good life to a “great life.”
What sorts of issues in a doctor’s life lend themselves
to coaching?
The frantic pace of today’s world can produce burnout, fatigue,
strained relationships, and a sense of fragmentation in many
doctor’s lives. Coaching serves as a methodology which can enable
doctors to have a sounding board to sort out life, reduce stress, and
develop a plan for healthy, happy living. Some common issues addressed
in coaching might include developing a plan for the future during
seasons of transition, understanding individual purpose, improving
relationships, finding balance in work, family, and leisure, and
integrating spiritual values into everyday life. But the truth is,
almost anything can represent a focus for coaching.
How can I find out more?
Usually, those who are interested in finding out more about life
coaching will email Ken Jones, our ‘point person’ for this
new endeavor. Ken serves as the CMDA San Francisco/Redding Area
Director, and was a pastor and life coach before joining our CMDA field
staff. Ken will find a convenient time for a one-on-one phone
conversation. There is, of course, no obligation connected to this
informational session, and all inquiries are strictly confidential. Ken
will help clarify what the client might like to see happen during a
potential coaching relationship, and help determine whether coaching is
a good choice. After that initial evaluation, if a coaching relationship
is desired, Ken will meet by telephone with the doctor, weekly in
forty-minute coaching sessions. Short, phone “touch-base”
conversations may also be important throughout the month. Each week,
specific goals or targets are established, giving the client a sense of
movement toward the new chapter in their lives.
Cost?
CMDA believes that coaching can be a tremendous resource for the
doctors we serve. The suggested donation to CMDA for coaching is
$400/month, with an initial agreement for 13 weeks or 3 months.
How do I know if I am ready for life coaching?
If you’re considering whether or not to be a part of our new
CMDA coaching program, answering the following questions may help you in
determining if coaching is right for you:
Is the time right for me to acquire a coach?
If you are facing important changes in the way you live your life,
then the time is probably right for you. People who are extremely busy
or have trouble imagining taking on one more thing in their lives are
also probably prime candidates. In fact, the first thing a doctor may
want to explore with his/her coach is what to remove in order to make
life feel simpler, more balanced, and manageable.
Is coaching worth my time and financial
investment?
Acquiring a coach is an important investment in life. The impact of a
coach on the personal and professional life of a Christian doctor can be
profound. But the financial commitment to the process needs to be
carefully considered.
Am I prepared to change?
During the coaching relationship, new perspectives and ways of seeing
life will be explored. If you have a desire and willingness to stretch
your creative side and are open to seeing things from a different
perspective, coaching can help you develop a new course of action which
you may never have considered before.
Is coaching what I am really looking for?
There are many kinds of professional relationships. Some people would
benefit more from an accountant, an attorney, a financial planner, or
even a personal assistant. A coach can help you determine the kind of
help that would be most beneficial for you. For example, if you’re
experiencing chronic emotional struggles or dwelling extensively on past
hurts or failures, you may have tried therapy. If it proved unrewarding
or unsuccessful, you might benefit from a coach to help you move on in
your life.
Still have questions?
Feel free to contact Ken Jones for answers to any other questions you
may have about coaching at kenjones@cmdawest.com.